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So when??????????? are we going to sing in Saigon. Kekekekeke Laughing

Of course! 19-22 Mar I'll be there. Flying back on 23.
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So when??????????? are we going to sing in Saigon. Kekekekeke Laughing
Of course! 19-22 Mar I'll be there. Flying back on 23.

Dzoooo see you in Saigon.
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So when??????????? are we going to sing in Saigon. Kekekekeke Laughing

Why so troublesome to travel all the way there? we can sing in singapore everyday Smile
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botarbolampar wrote:
So when??????????? are we going to sing in Saigon. Kekekekeke Laughing
Why so troublesome to travel all the way there? we can sing in singapore everyday Smile

Singapore mac quaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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botarbolampar wrote:
jackbl wrote:
botarbolampar wrote:
So when??????????? are we going to sing in Saigon. Kekekekeke Laughing
Why so troublesome to travel all the way there? we can sing in singapore everyday Smile

Singapore mac quaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Agree!
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Adguy wrote:
botarbolampar wrote:
jackbl wrote:
botarbolampar wrote:
So when??????????? are we going to sing in Saigon. Kekekekeke Laughing
Why so troublesome to travel all the way there? we can sing in singapore everyday Smile

Singapore mac quaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Agree!

Double agree!!! Just came back from HCMC and already looking forward to go back there again to see baxa... yeu roi!
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Double agree!!! Just came back from HCMC and already looking forward to go back there again to see baxa... yeu roi!

You give me goosebumps Laughing
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Double agree!!! Just came back from HCMC and already looking forward to go back there again to see baxa... yeu roi!

This shows that you are a human being. Kekekekekeke.
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Much as I adore Viet girls, there are seriously loads of challenges in being in a relationship with them.

Finance aside, there's the mental aspects you have to deal with. They are just sooo diff from Sgp girls. The way they think, and the way they act.

A friend of mine actually said that the richer Viet girls are not like that. Wonder if this is true.

Seeing so many lovey dovey bros here, I guess there's definitely a possibility for a happily ever after. But for me... it's still something I find very hard to deal with.
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Double agree!!! Just came back from HCMC and already looking forward to go back there again to see baxa... yeu roi!

You mentioned you bringing her to sgp. When is that?

Mine will be in town from 23 Mar (hopefully). Maybe we can arrange another meetup with the wives Laughing
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Double agree!!! Just came back from HCMC and already looking forward to go back there again to see baxa... yeu roi!

You mentioned you bringing her to sgp. When is that?

Mine will be in town from 23 Mar (hopefully). Maybe we can arrange another meetup with the wives Laughing

My baxa coming in 13 April 2010. I will be going up on 9 April to meet her in HCMC first and will fly back with her to Singapore on 13 April. We can meet up to see your baxa and maybe have dinner and family karaoke!
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My baxa coming in 13 April 2010. I will be going up on 9 April to meet her in HCMC first and will fly back with her to Singapore on 13 April. We can meet up to see your baxa and maybe have dinner and family karaoke!

Timing is excellent!
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Much as I adore Viet girls, there are seriously loads of challenges in being in a relationship with them.

Finance aside, there's the mental aspects you have to deal with. They are just sooo diff from Sgp girls. The way they think, and the way they act.

A friend of mine actually said that the richer Viet girls are not like that. Wonder if this is true.

Seeing so many lovey dovey bros here, I guess there's definitely a possibility for a happily ever after. But for me... it's still something I find very hard to deal with.

Bro, I think at the end of the day, it is how much you can accept their way of thinking and doing things... My baxa is not exactly rich nor poor but I must say her thinking is much more mature than SGP girls of her age.

It is not easy to carve out a living in HCMC and many times sacrifices need to be done. My baxa's father is stricken down with cancer and basically waiting to die (I met him myself.. really sad Sad )... literally... but she is very strong and never showed her sadness deep inside her... I have only ever seen her cry once over this matter... I really admire her for that..

The reason why I will not accept a SGP gal is because they are just too spoilt... too comfortable and cannot take hardship. My family background is not very rich but we work hard and had to make many sacrifices, which many SGP gals just do not have that kinda mental strength...
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My baxa is not exactly rich nor poor but I must say her thinking is much more mature than SGP girls of her age.

You find a girl like this... you need to marry her.

IMHO, most viet girls I know are 3-5 years behind in terms of maturity.

Yet again, it's where I know them that could be the problem. Sad
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My baxa is not exactly rich nor poor but I must say her thinking is much more mature than SGP girls of her age.
You find a girl like this... you need to marry her.
IMHO, most viet girls I know are 3-5 years behind in terms of maturity.
Yet again, it's where I know them that could be the problem. Sad

Whatever it is. Never rush into it. Take your time bro.
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Adguy wrote:
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My baxa is not exactly rich nor poor but I must say her thinking is much more mature than SGP girls of her age.
You find a girl like this... you need to marry her.
IMHO, most viet girls I know are 3-5 years behind in terms of maturity.
Yet again, it's where I know them that could be the problem. Sad

Whatever it is. Never rush into it. Take your time bro.

Yup... I think so also... it's a long term commitment....
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Hello bros,

Does your "ba xa" expect you to take care of her financially ?
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Hello bros,

Does your "ba xa" expect you to take care of her financially ?

It's always the first criteria.

And there's always her family too.

Not all viet girls are like that I'm sure, but I'm quite sure it's the most basic expectation for most.
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What to do, we are richer ma..................can help we help lor.
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But a lot of things in Vietnam are also not that cheap as compared to Singapore.

What is you guys' limit/budget to how much to support your ba xa per month?
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miua55555 wrote:
But a lot of things in Vietnam are also not that cheap as compared to Singapore.

What is you guys' limit/budget to how much to support your ba xa per month?

Things are actually very cheap in Vn. You just need to know how to find them.

On an average, a family can survive comfortably on 1k sgd a month.

Depending on your bx's financial situation, and your own, you can decide which percent of that 1k sgd you wish to contribute.

Apart from the monthly allowance, there will also be the occasional buying of motor, renovating the house a little, bx's family coming to sgp, etc.

Hope this helps.
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Adguy,

thanks for your advice. Smile
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Adguy,

thanks for your advice. Smile

No worries
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miua55555 wrote:
Adguy,
thanks for your advice. Smile

Nice avatar. I like it.
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botarbolampar wrote:
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Bros,
I'm planing to bring my bx to Singapore in April to celebrate her birthday here. It is her first time coming to Singapore. Can bros please advise what airlines she should take to come Singapore? I heard in the past a lot of VN girls come here via Tiger Airways kenna scrutinised like fuck and some even kenna forced to turn back home... I was thinking of booking SIA but the fares damn horrendously high! What I pay in SIA, I can pay for 2 persons on Jetstar and Tiger...
Any advice from bros highly appreciated!!!! Cam on rat nhieu!!!

I just kanna last month. Both of us landed in changi by jetstar.
She kanna question by the custom officer. Then asked to go into the office.
Took her photo and thumb print too. This is her first trip here and outside vietnam.
Brand new passport too.
The safest way is to ask her to follow a tour group to singapore.
KNN stupid rules.

Ya, my girl also having the same treatment when first time come to Singapore.
Luckily I book the Hotel and email her a copy.
She stay in the Office for around 1 hour plus..
They ask her come here for what..and asking is she working in Vietnam.
My girl reply saying got a singapore friend invite her to visit singapore.
She knows the friend while working in a salon in Vietnam.
But after that next time when she comes again, it is very easy for her. no question asked at all.

So be cool as long as they act very normal, not scared, can communicate should have no problem.
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